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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cohesive_bandage

I have two rolls if anyone wants one

It sure is difficult to do bdsm alone.

Self bondage is a thing 🙂

Only with that attitude!

Aha! I am a pervert and I was right!

Um, in the Medical field we just call it Coban? Get your freak on people!

Genuinely really good stuff to have in a first aid kit for stabilising. Also there's loads of different colours so if you do any sports it's good for providing a little extra support for things like wrists and ankles.

Which is funny, because IRL lots of people into BDSM call it vetenarian tape

I haven’t checked yet but this sounds like vet wrap or coban.

Edit: seems similar but vet wrap/coban isn’t glossy, more fabric-y.

petplay?

Doesn't stick to fur.

Just like veterinarians

So fursuit petplay

I just looked it up and hmm yea I can see how that would be exciting but also like it would have to be rather rigid.... u know? alsoalso softer.. restraints are probably much nicer I imagine. like not as rigid and maybe more fun to move in.

Weeeell... not being able to (freely) move in it is kind of the point. And the nice thing with tape is, you can almost always use more.

hmm yea I can see that, but like - being able ti wiggle a lil... thats fun. I think. like - I want them to be like there, unable to go anywhere and do anything against what I do to them ~ ~ ~

but also I think its nice to let them wiggle, stretch out their arms when they wanna and pull against the roped when they wanna. but maybe thats just two very different kinds of restraints so... yeah maybe thats where I'm silly

I mean, we're all silly, in our own way.

In fairness, it is super hard to tie someone with zero wiggle room.

yeee and I think thats mmmh so wonderful! like yesss let them wiggle, let them move away just a bit, perhaps 30 cm or something, but then have the restraints catch them so then I can keep them there and mmmmhmhmhmhm point out how silly their escape maneuver was >v<

Hear me out: rubber bands. The kind you use to tie down things to your bike, or exercise. Might need some creativity in sourcing / manufacturing, but that would tick all your boxes, right?

hmmm no i think just... general nice and soft ropes are where I'm at. maybe with a little give to Ehen they move, they get a bit of a satisfying bounce ~

mmmmaybe. like - these kinds of almost smooth scarf-like ropes kinda which dont feel much like restraints and more like... just something comfy.

Fair, there is no right or wrong. I certainly see the appeal, just not fully my cup of tea.

I think you're looking for a collar.

The other nice thing about a collar is you can pull your sub around by it and make them do things. You can yank down and force them to kneel

Uh, it comes in nice colors! Neat!

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