Nominative determinism crying-crying.
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It's behind a hard paywall but Robert_Kennedy_Jr found the article - https://hexbear.net/comment/7361718
"females"
This is actually fascinating because I did a bit of research on this for my work ages ago. Basically through all human history it's been so common to use a walking stick or staff for all people of all classes, age and sex. This is because hey there was a lot more congenital injuries, post infective injuries like polio, chronic injury that couldn't be fixed (no ACL repair etc). Plus you couldn't easily take ibuprofen and put on a ice pack on an acute injury.
It's only really in the baby boomers that walking sticks sharply drop off. With boomers (and gen-xers) basically refusing to use them because they don't want to be perceived as getting old.
When there's so much evidence that a single point stick or SPS helps reduce pain, improve mobility and generally help reduce lifetime morbidity (basically you can walk more with one and walking is great). They're also cheaper and safer than medication or various surgeries.
It's actually really cool that millennials and zoomers are using them again.
Nice that's really cool to learn, on a few hikes I've done I used a walking stick just for the hell of it and it's just really comfortable to use one
Yeah walking sticks rule as @Johnny_Arson@hexbear.net said there's a reason humans have used them for so long. Also very handy on uneven terrain.
I would also like to add that walking sticks were probably one of the earliest tools invented by humans and there is still reason to use them to this day, even if healthy, as our bodies are still evolving to our upright posture. Same goes for squatting to take a shit, sitting the way we do at the height of a toilet is actually not ideal for our intestines when emptying our bowels.
Your off-the-cuff comment is 100 times better than her shitpost-level article she got paid to write.
Stock's place in the media is the intellectual equivalent of a farmer collecting subsidies to keep cultivated land fallow, expressly for maintaining profitable food prices
Thank you!
Plus it looks cool to be a wizard
it really does!
When the rizz is so bad she pulls out the sword cane
My biggest fear.
The feminine urge to use a shillelagh.
shillelagh
I WANT ONE SOOOO BAD.
Unlimited on br*tish "journalists"
Ah, she thinks she's almost done with exterminating trans people, so she does the literal same playbook for disabilities now. If Kathleen Stock turns out to unfortunately still be alive ten years from now, we will see articles were she calls being not white a social contagion.
I really really wish I did not have to share a world with people like her
Feeeeeeeeeeeemales
Would not be surprised if Covid was the reason
Walking sticks should be normal. They are useful for everyone who walks, no matter how able. You can walk so much faster and farther because you spread the load across 4 limbs instead of 2. Surely I’m not going to bring them everywhere, but it shouldn’t be weird if I do
Failing that, it’s nice to get some arm work in.
Also good for self defense if you get a nice solid one.
brit media class should be liquidated in the literal sense of the word in a giant blender
One of the first things that has to be done post-revolution is to liquidate the entire bourgeois media class without mercy.
Unironically leftists need an even stronger “I don’t trust the lame-stream media” culture than the right, which does believe the lame-stream media.
is a cane cheaper than proper healthcare?
Related - https://hexbear.net/comment/7362549
Oh the voice inside my head that makes me feel self conscious for using a cane has a physical body? Hmm....interesting information for no reason.
You're telling there's some sort of... long-term problems from COVID? A long COVID, if you will? But Joe Brandon told me it was fine after Delta Airlines asked him to!
I know people are going to find this hard to believe, but I don't think the CEO of Delta had the working class's well being at the forefront of their concerns.
huh, weird, can't remember anything happening in 2020 relevant to this
We found out that Blue Maga is just Red Maga on a 6 month delay.
Also very strange how it only shoots into the sky at around 2021
Bring back cane swords
threaded cane gang
I loved that weapon, but I'm much better with Gascoigne's axe.
Whats that from? It looks sick
It’s sick af but I imagine I couldn’t use use it ten times without hurting myself.
Bloodborne, and it is fucking sick
https://www.coldsteel.com/aluminum-head-sword-cane/
Stick-Stock reels*
(latest fad)
I know it's nonsense slop that's surely tedious. Still - I'd like to read it. But I can't. It's behind a hard paywall.
https://archive.ph/OMv9c
Why are young women using walking sticks? A disproportionate number of Gen Z females are affected by vague syndromes and may be victims of social contagion
In 19th-century Paris, walking with a cane was a symbol of the dandyish flâneur, strolling elegantly around the city with an ironically arched eyebrow. In 21st-century Britain, canes are the unironic preserve of vulnerable looking girls. Sometimes you see groups of them, each leaning on a walking stick as they edge gingerly along. Startlingly fresh-faced users have been visible at Pride parades for a while, and there are growing numbers on university campuses. The message sent to onlookers is about a life spent in pain; though what kind of pain, exactly, remains unclear. TikTok has hundreds of videos on the subject: how to match your stick to your outfit, how to dance with a cane, how mobility aids can still look hot. And the trend is not just for walking aids.
This week a video went viral of a young woman in a wheelchair at a train station, filming the laborious attempts of staff to get her chair up some stairs after the lift failed. Towards the end of the video, somewhat unexpectedly, she gets out of her chair and walks upstairs herself, saying she “had a bit of energy that day” so could do it. In another video, she films herself putting on roller skates before pushing off from her wheelchair and skating happily away, Lazarus-like. Even severely debilitating physical conditions produce good days as well as bad. On some bad days, a person may need extra help. But when a disproportionate number of young women are insisting this applies, we need to find out what is going on. Why do Gen Z females, apparently unlike every generation before them, have strangely unstable bodies that intermittently require support?
When you dig into their explanations, a few officially medical-sounding words tend to recur: postural tachycardia, joint hypermobility, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue. What these syndromes all share is a set of non-specific symptoms, versions of which are familiar to all of us: dizziness, a racing heart, exhaustion, brain fog, muscle pain. And of course, many of these are also symptoms of anxiety, the defining emotion of teenage years. Saying this doesn’t indicate that the syndromes in question don’t exist, but only that it can be unclear whether you really have one.
Could it be, then, that some are taking a cue from internet influencers, overanalysing normal experiences and talking themselves into a disabled state? If true, it would hardly be the first time that young women were in the grip of social contagion — indeed, they are famously good at it.
In her 2017 book How Emotions Are Made, the psychologist Lisa Feldman Barrett argues that emotions are a form of prediction, with the mind trying to decipher bodily feelings according to scripts learnt from the past. She starts with a vivid example of her own. As a young woman on a first date, her stomach started to flutter and she couldn’t concentrate. Soon afterwards she threw up, and realised that what she had assumed were emerging feelings of lust was actually a stomach bug.
What was true of the author then is true of all of us. Our inner sensations don’t come with labels attached but require mental interpretation, which is why cultures differ in their emotional ranges. Humans gradually learn the meaning of their feelings from society around them.
The old-fashioned repressed British script, still beloved of many middle-aged men, said: “Just ignore the painful twinge or weird sensation and it will go away.” Some are so adept at this they literally don’t notice injuries or signs of illness.
These days, the medical profession encourages us to take our physical experiences seriously in case some disease or other can be caught in time. But in certain subcultures, young people are being told that unpleasant feelings should be focused on more than anything else. These feelings may be frightening; but they also make you different, special, excused from the pressures of life, pleasingly fussed over by strangers. And if a person then spends a lot of time sitting or lying down, she will naturally become unfit, so that the next time she stands up or walks any distance she will feel even worse; and the cycle of confused self-interpretation will continue.
To point this possibility out tends to produce anger in those affected or those that care for them. Arguing that certain kinds of disability are socially created, particularly in females, looks at odds with the dictum that young women with chronic illnesses tend to be disbelieved by doctors, and that this is a very bad thing. When talking about trends across huge populations, though, both things can be true — indeed, they might even be connected. And in the socially constructed case, we are still talking about illness rather than deliberate feigning. It’s just that the source of illness is, in part, a story the sufferer has unconsciously learnt. And this is very good news. For unlike biologically fixed disorders, stories can be changed for the better, and happier endings produced for the sufferers concerned. Rather than it being cruel to say this, in fact, it is cruel not to. We owe it to potentially able-bodied young people to challenge their tendencies to neuroticism and fear; to get them out into the world as functioning adults, wherever that is possible. For their sake, we need to help them ditch the props, and — quite literally — to stand on their own two feet.
the same week as ME Awareness Day
on behalf of my partner:
My partner has fibromyalgia. It fluctuates between medium-mild pain and catastrophically debilitating pain. It never goes away. It doesn't help that my partner is also autistic, but that is beside the point.
I am an able-bodied person. I have unlearned a lot of bad ways of dealing with disability by being with my partner (for which I am immensely grateful and appaled at my own self-centeredness). So I understand not being able to grasp a lot of the difficulty and confusion that comes with the fluctuation of symptons. One day, my partner can go rollerskating just fine. The other, they can't get out of bed. It's strange and frustrating, most of all for the person going through it, but for the people around them also.
What doesn't help is that the first question that comes up, when people are faced with this confusion, is about whether or not the pain is real. About whether the person is faking it for attention.
My partner struggled with pain for years. You know what helped? Knowing what it was. Before being diagnosed, the pain was a great unknown, tragedy that could strike at any moment. With the diagnosis, fibromyalgia sucks, but can be dealt with. At worst, my partner can understand that they will have to cancel plans because the pain will probably continue.
An article like this is heinous, simply cruel. It spits on the face of people who go through the most difficult lives of this most difficult time in history. It plays pain for a fancy. And, mostly, it helps absolutely no one, by shaming those that try to cope with the pain.
I would recommend Lyrica if you haven't tried it, made a night-and-day difference for my father with Fibromyalgia who was completely unable to sleep and abused Ibuprofen (damaging his stomach lining and causing ulcers) until he found it. Obviously won't work for everyone, but I highly recommend it.
It's a good suggestion, but we tried it and it didn't quite work. Collateral effects and such. Thanks, though
all good, sorry it wasn't helpful. Best of luck dealing with the pain
"Hmmmm....could it be some disabilities may not be visible or perhaps prevent people from going long distances but they can still move decently across short distances? No, clearly they're faking it!"
If I see this person on the street I'm getting out of my wheelchair to punch them right in the kidney.
In High School, I started coming home most days with a pounding headache. My routine became going to lie in a dark room for at least 30 minutes, often for fully hours until dinner was ready. Bringing up the possibility that these might be migraines, my mom brushed it aside saying something like "I have migraines, and they make it where I can't do anything all day, sometimes for days, those aren't migraines" so I ignored my chronic headaches. For 20 years.
Until I started having sporadic limb paralysis and non-epileptic seizures and got diagnosed with Functional Neurologic Disorder after a year's waiting and tons of tests. Eventually, I got told by my neurologist that she couldn't treat my seizures, but she wanted to know more about my "mild, perpetual headaches" and I told her. She told me those are, and had always been, migraines. And migraines she could treat. I've had one seizure since starting the migraine medicine over two months ago, and it was on a very busy day after a week of very bad sleep. I don't think I would have FND at all if I hadn't cooked my brain with repressed pain transmitters for 20 years.
Also, during my flareups, I use a cane if I want to go on a walk or really to be more than 30s away from a seat, and I am assuredly not a "girl". I may one day be a woman, but if you look at me you'd see a cis white man.
Thanks for finding it!
The author should be ground up into fertilizer.
I wish I had a national platform to write breathless thinkpieces about obvious ragebait Tik Toks
This is the first time in a while I haven’t been able to find an appropriate ‘what the fuck is she talking about’ emoji
maybe?
That’s a good one
Jesus christ this is on another level of disgusting
Thanks! How the hell did you find that? I checked archive.today but the link I found was the paywalled page.
Startlingly fresh-faced users have been visible at Pride parades for a while
And much later on at the end:
For unlike biologically fixed disorders, stories can be changed for the better, and happier endings produced for the sufferers concerned.
Ah. I'm laughing at myself. I should have guessed. How Ya Gonna Keep 'em Down on the Farm (After They've Seen Le Gay/Trans Walking Sticks)?
But the rest is 2/10. Very, very low quality slop.
Just put the URL you want at the end of the archive.ph/ and it will show you the archived links, or should offer to archive it for you.
Also make sure your URL is “clean” strip any unnecessary trackers from the URL you might have.
I just used archive.ph and selected the first copy, I know the different paywall bypass / archives have varying effectiveness.
If its anything like the results I got when trying to google an alternate source for the article its definitely some cringy slop.
Full text - https://hexbear.net/comment/7361718
Just as abelist and overall ignorant as I expected
I can probably sum it up from you.
“Gubmint do eugenics! And yucky GURL COOTIES!”

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