"The rent you pay to exist in the world as a woman."
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Found this post thanks to @kasdeya@cryptid.cafe who posted it three years ago on her old timeline. Somebody boosted it on mine today and I knew I had to post it here.
See "Rule 1: Women only...
Trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women’s community is a good fit for them."
I love how much less I care now. It is a certain freedom that is so incredibly….relaxing. Knowing deep down that how I look is completely separate from what I want to do releases some deep internal misogyny that was holding me to task for being “ugly”.
Love this meme! Thanks so much for sharing. Please be aware we used to put "women only" etc in posts and we found that was just a red rag to a bull.
Well, at least, men can't say they didn't see it so you can ban on sight.
Literally every woman ive known gets pretty for themselves, not others. Most people don't give a shit if you look pretty or not, if you think they do then you are just being narcissistic lmao
Are you a woman? Literally every woman I know, including myself, gets judged daily on their appearance.
No. They're not.
Literally every woman I know has read and understood rule 1, have you?
As a man i can tell you that being visually appealing to others is extremely helpful in life. It's not necessary but I'll be damned if it ain't useful when you want or need something. When I look more appealing to people they are more likely to hear me out and help me. If for instance I looked creepy or dangerous to someone they are far less likely to help.
Hey Zephyr the post does clearly state it's a woman only community so I'm afraid you're banned. Have a lovely weekend ❤️
As a woman I can tell you nobody asked for your opinion in this group. And I can tell you even more (even though I'm not obliged): looking creepy, dangerous and unappealing can be used to get exactly what one wants as a woman: to be left alone.
( farts, walks of stage while picking her nose. )
Please respect the rules for this community.
Which were restated inside of the post itself.
What I've learned as an older man is that the Halo effect, i.e., "pretty privilege" is even more important as a man than as a woman. Women are hypergamous and gravitate towards the highest value mates. Only 40% of men reproduce, whereas 80% of women reproduce. If you are a man and not doing everything in your power to make yourself as attractive as you can, you're leaving money on the table.
Dude, this is a space for women. We do not appreciate this type of incel language here. Gross!
By the way, this attitude is exactly why you are unfuckable. Women can spot walking red flags like you from a mile away. We all learn to recognize your type the second you open your mouth sooner or later, it quickly becomes a survival instinct.
Oh you can take this incel rhetoric right the fuck out of this community.
OK Buddy Andrew Tate
I don't think you can throw around words like "hypergamous" when you can't understand the basic words in this post.
If you want to have an actual conversation you should find someone closer to your reading level, like maybe at a playground.

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