I'm top heavy so can't do this
(midwest.social)
(midwest.social)
I wiiiish. 12J here. They just get everywhere and smack everything if i don't.
If you don't need a bra, you don't have to wear one. Fuck oppressive societal expectations.
I'm top heavy and never wear a bra anymore. Fuck bras.
Maybe it's my autism speaking though, I've heard most women don't mind a bra, whereas it's actual fucking torture to me to wear a "well fitting" bra.
I was 42 years old when I finally gave myself permission to jusy wear my super comfy nursing sleeping bras all the time (I haven't nursed for two years). It's enough support for me (also top heavy) without any of the hastle that every mf bra has something that feels like torture.
It's liberating.
Women generally hate bras, at least in my experience. I’ve met a few young women who claimed they didn’t mind or women who wear them because they need to but I’ve never heard a woman express enjoyment about wearing a bra
I guess its a bit more nuanced. Sometimes it might be dislike because of society taboos of going without one. But there are good parts, they can make you feel good about yourself, push-ups exist and are popular for a reason. As somebody without a huge amount to work with I do enjoy the shape and silhouette a good one can give even if its not the most comfortable thing in the world.
I went one step further and made sure all of my fancy clothes don't require bras either.
Free the titties!
B cups and under, untie!
Ittie bittie tittie committee at your service!
Haha 😄 🤣 😂
:/
I only wear a bra when I'm running
Yeah, it really depends on what I’m doing if I wear one. I do prefer to wear a bra when I’m out and about doing things because I’m more top heavy. I’ll wear a sports bra when I’m in the garden or doing yard work because I don’t want the ladies just flopping about at the wrong time. But if I’m just chilling at home, I let the ladies run free.
I can barely stand to wear them anymore. I didn’t realize I was only able to deal with them because I had built up a tolerance. Now it’s free boobin or a bralette 95% of the time but even bralettes get oppressive after too long
I basically live in bralettes if I'm at home. I'm very much not top heavy but I like the little bit of support and nip padding. I also kind of wear them like a crop top rather than pajama tops in bed.
I'm pretty happy in a bra during the day but totally get how annoying it must get if there is a lot more weight put into those straps.
Also top heavy, and i have to wear a bra, because skin-on-skin = sweat and discomfort. But I also can't find a supportive bra without huge straps, nor have i been able to criss-cross, or otherwise remove them from visibility, so I cant wear cute tanks or halter tops without a coverlet.
See, I want bigger straps because they cut in :-/
I've been wearing pull-over bras for a little while, so much more comfy, but a) can still see my nipples, and b) they don't offer much support, juuust enough I don't have to descend stairs carefully to avoid discomfort
criss-cross? what's that?
i mainly wear the ones with straps you can remove, but the soft ones.
tried padded bras, they felt a bit too metallic.
This was always the case. This person just went through their personal awakening.
Did anyone else zoom in on her tiny photo to see if she said was true?

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