Stamets
Queer_IRLI bet my parenta think im gay because of my homosexual relationship. Also i get told a lot that i am gay because i hang more with queer guys than with bi/straight woman...really annoying
Yep this. Been in a committed hetero relationship for a decade.
If I was single I'd probably hit up grindr don't fucking doubt me
Annoyosexual?
I'm still not sure if I'm bi or pan. If I have a preference for a gender, probably more so bi than pan right? The distinction is pretty arbitrary, I feel like, but not knowing for sure kinda grinds my gears
I ended up picking the bi label because im attracted to all (and null) genders but the attraction is different between them. I guess that's "omni", but I'm old and like the bi label more. The flag is also excellent.
Like you said, the distinction is mostly arbitrary and will differ between any 2 people. Whatever fits your vibe at the time, no reason you cant reidentify later.
As a bi/pan person myself I've always seen them as meaning the same thing, the difference is maybe in connotation.
I thought the distinction is that being bisexual involves attraction to the physicality of more than one specific gender, but that pan involves attraction to people primarily based on things about them other than their physicality
So in really simplified and not all inclusive terms: a guy who likes the physique of men and women would be bi. A guy who has fallen for men and women (but is not particularly attracted to any specific physique) would be pan.
Bi is basically open-mindedness about attraction to physiques, and pan is open-mindedness about attraction to personalities that may be wildly different. In either case tho neither is likely to have a real “type” in the conventional sense
Not meaningfully different but with an obviously better flag
Bi-sexual, still, but now rapidly switching from sub to dom.
Just say no to bi-erasure kids
I actually know a guy who thinks bisexuality is completely made up. Straight? Fine. Gay? Fine. Bisexual? FAKE.
He thinks that you are either attracted to "male" or "female". But both or anything else is completely invalid.
Not the only absurd opinion he holds though so I wasn't that surprised when he came out with this shit.
how does he explain three+somes?
I feel seen
