We need something like what Lemmy is to Reddir, except for discord. A decentralized application with multiple instances that users can join.

I have a discord server of about ~1K members, and would love to spin up a docker container to host my own instance that users can join. Chat, voice/ video calls, video streaming, etc. I'd love to support a FOSS project like this. Maybe even have E2E while we're at it!

is there a practical way to delete all your messages at once?

Yeah, you go ahead & do that, & watch how many people will jump ship to other alternatives while you lose a lot of money & subscriptions, especially when you’ve been hacked before.

People have found other alternatives to TikTok, & they’ll do the same with Discord.

i wouldn't be so optimistic. normies have a tendency to accept quite a lot.

Dude my dnd campaign is run on Discord what the fuck. Do I need to start hosting open source voice and video chat?

https://discord.com/press-releases/update-on-security-incident-involving-third-party-customer-service

Of the accounts impacted globally, we have identified approximately 70,000 users that may have had government-ID photos exposed

Lol, no thanks. I deleted this trash years ago and wish companies would stop using it for tech and customer support. “Join our discord channel!” - no.

I hope for once people would get together and drop Discord so that Discord would have to reverse this policy. So often, we the customers really have the power if we get together and act together. All these social networks are nothing without the contributions of the customers.

without the contributions of the ~~customers~~

Without the contributions of the product.

As the adage goes, if you're not paying for it (and often even when you are), you're not the customer.

We should append this, ..." or it is open source"

gonna fire up good ol' roger wilco for voice chat I guess

retvrn to teamspeak

we'd probably be better off with a federated/foss alternative.

Mumble (I've installed a server a while ago and had fucking idea how to do anything with it, certainly not to the point where I'd feel confident to invite people to it as a discord alternative)

Goodbye Discord.

Hello Matrix!

Matrix isn't that good from an usability standpoint as it looks a lot like IRC

Usability is good in my opinion. They’ve spent a lot of time on the UI over the past couple years. The mobile Element X apps are excellent now IMO. But the two things that prevent matrix/Element from being a good discord replacement are:

  1. No Mumble-like voice chat. They have Zoom-like conference calling now, but no voice channels.
  2. Search is either non-existent (mobile clients) or is awful. It’s somehow worse than Discord’s search! I know it’s because the search needs to work on-device because of E2EE, but unfortunately it’s still a minus point vs Discord.

I’m never doing this. I’ll pay someone else to verify my account before I upload my dox with these assholes.

I’m fine switching to an alternative, but I have seen no gaming companies linking anything else for their official “forums”

Minecraft.wiki links to Zulip....

I don't trust discord with what little I formation I've gave them so far. Definitely not giving them my ID or a scan of my face.

But they pinky promise the face scan is not facial recognition and that it's immediately deleted and never leaves your device.

Considering the recent "third-party" data breach cases...

However, some users may not have to go through either form of age verification. Discord is also rolling out an age inference model that analyzes metadata like the types of games a user plays, their activity on Discord, and behavioral signals like signs of working hours or the amount of time they spend on Discord.>

that's probably not much better though. nothing good will come from discord scanning everything we say on it.

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in other news: next month i will be attempting to bypass discord's "AI" powered security features. I expect to overcome them in 4 minutes with a pic of an ID i found on the internet

Use one from Musk

Does there exist an alternative that has both a desktop (WIN/Linux) client and a phone (android/iphone) client?

Matrix and Stoat

XMPP, Conversations is a Nice Android client.

Matrix

Finally my chance to quit?
Idk

Users who aren’t verified as adults will not be able to access age-restricted servers and channels, won’t be able to speak in Discord’s livestream-like “stage” channels, and will see content filters for any content Discord detects as graphic or sensitive.

Shrug

I'm not using discord for porn, so I'm not going to lose sleep. Will simply live with a "teen" account until my groups migrate to a better service.

But you'll get my biometrics from my cold dead hands.

They will also get warning prompts for friend requests from potentially unfamiliar users, and DMs from unfamiliar users will be automatically filtered into a separate inbox.

GOOD

Crazy they didn't implement this years ago. Discord is bloated with fake user spam.

So I get a free spam filter for not verifying? Guess I'm never verifying then, lol.

That last part should just be a feature of any account.

GOOD

Crazy they didn’t implement this years ago. Discord is bloated with fake user spam.

it's easy to see how they'll manipulate this to make you think that their pro-zionist bots are actual people.

Revolt! your time has come (though it has been renamed to Stoat; a name I very much dislike.

Limited Linux support (no repo or flatpak pkgs, not even aur) and tbh im not so sure how long they will continue to exist

First open source android app I've seen that requires Google Play Store.

You made the poor little guy sad. :(

If that is true then that is much better than revolt because that kind of name will make the majority of people roll their eyes and pass it up.

So while it hard to get your friends to join a different platform imagine how much harder it would be to get them to join “revolt”. Its super edgy

Damn guess I'm not using Discord anymore

Uhhhh no thanks. Bye.

RIP Discord

New to the whole privacy space, what should I start moving my social group to that's like discord but not doing this?

matrix and zulip are interesting alternatives

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